By Suzanne Butler
As the year draws to a close and Christmas lights begin to twinkle, our homes become the heart of celebration. Yet beneath the tinsel and tree lies something deeper — the energy that shapes how we feel, connect and experience the season. Feng Shui, the ancient Chinese art of harmonising energy, offers timeless wisdom to help you create a space that feels calm, abundant and full of joy.
Here’s how to bring balance to your festive season with a few simple dos and don’ts.
Do: Decorate with intention
Before pulling out the decorations, clear clutter and release what’s no longer serving you. Stagnant energy lingers around piles of “stuff”, creating tension and fatigue. Choose décor that genuinely lifts your mood. A mindful approach keeps your space light and full of festive flow.
Don’t: Overcrowd your space
Too many decorations can block energy and heighten stress. Aim for open movement in your living and dining areas — spaces where emotions (and sometimes opinions) tend to rise. When energy flows smoothly, so do conversations, making it easier to prevent awkward moments or family drama over dinner.
Do: Use red and gold wisely
Red and gold aren’t just festive — they’re powerful Feng Shui colours. Red symbolises Fire energy — joy, warmth, passion — while gold represents the Metal element, bringing focus and success. Use them in balance: too much red can spark tempers (especially from chatty uncles after their second drink), while gold brings calm refinement. Think balance, not blaze.
Don’t: Block the front door
Your front door is the “mouth of Chi”, the main entry for energy — and guests. Keep it open, bright and clutter-free. A wreath made from natural greenery invites harmony, while gentle lighting encourages a peaceful welcome. This simple act also prevents family tension from “getting stuck” at the door — the energetic equivalent of stopping arguments before they start.
Do: Position your tree with purpose
Your Christmas tree symbolises growth and vitality. Placing it in the east boosts family harmony, the southeast attracts wealth and the south enhances reputation and joy. Avoid the northwest if you can, as it may trigger stubborn or dominant energy (looking at you, Uncle Kevin). A balanced tree equals a balanced table conversation.
Don’t: Use sharp or harsh decorations
Spiky ornaments, pointy branches or glittering stars aimed like darts can create “cutting Chi”, leading to irritability or tension. Choose rounded shapes, soft lighting and smooth textures to maintain a gentle, welcoming atmosphere — the antidote to festive feuds.
Do: Bring nature indoors
Balance the high-energy buzz of Christmas with grounding, natural touches. Fresh pine, eucalyptus or even a small potted plant connects your home to the Wood element, encouraging growth and calm. A bowl of fruit or flowers on the table can help keep emotions sweet rather than sour.
Don’t: Forget gratitude and intention
The strongest Feng Shui tip of all? Set your intention. As you decorate, reflect on what you’re grateful for and what you’d like to call in for the new year. Write those wishes and tuck them beneath the tree — a symbolic gesture of peace, abundance and family unity.
This Christmas, let Feng Shui guide you beyond the decorations and into the energy that truly matters — harmony, connection and calm. Because when your home is balanced, even Uncle Kevin can’t shake your festive spirit.
